Your spouse is not group-chat material
This week's marriage tactic is about the moment something private from your relationship becomes material for somebody else's group chat. Married people need friends and outside support, and asking for it is healthy. The trouble is that one partner can be sharing their own experience while handing over the other person's body, sex life, health, money, or private words without ever asking. The Two-Key Privacy Rule sorts which stories need both signatures before they leave the house.